How To Find a Threesome Partner
Threesomes are something that is beyond a lot of men’s wildest fantasies (sometimes a girl’s too!), and is something that they always dream of having the chance to take part in. Whether you and your partner’s sex life is beginning to seem dull and you want to bring something new into the bedroom, or you’re out at a club simply looking for a good time, or even if you’re just doing it to please your partner, there are many reasons for you to try out a threesome. If you are one of the few who have already had their chance at a threesome, then this might not be for you, however if you’re looking for some experience, you’ve come to the right place.
Finding a Threesome Partner
If you are already in a relationship and you are interested in arranging a threesome, then discuss how your partner feels about it. If your partner is easily offended, then the chances are that they won’t agree to it and may even get upset with you. However, if they have an open mind there is a higher chance of them agreeing with you.
If your partner has agreed to trying out a threesome, then it’s time to find a third participant for the night. Remember that this street can go two ways. The chances are that your first time involved in a threesome will consist of one guy and two girls, however if you are a guy and your partner and you are regularly involved in threesomes, then your partner will expect you to have an equally open mind if she wishes to bring in a third party of her own, another guy. While at first this may not seem like something you are into, remember that your partner had an open mind upon your requests so it is a good idea to give her ideas a shot so that she can have her fair share of enjoyment too.
Last but not least, if you have a friend or already know someone who you’d like to have a threesome with, before you run ahead and ask them if they’d like to be involved you have to ask yourself whether or not it is a good idea. A lot of people will get offended if you ask them that question, and you will risk losing a friendship over it. This is a risk when asking someone that you are friends with and have been for a while. A more reliable option may be to hop onto a dating app and find someone who is looking for something similar to what you are, this way everyone is happy!
Tips for a Threesome
1.Threesomes should be fun for everyone. While you might be enjoying the company of one person more than the other, you will ruin the night by not involving everyone as much as you can.
Keep an open mind. It is important to have an open mind when you are taking part in a threesome. From the go you should already have an open mind, and continuing that mind-set is equally as important. If someone wants to try something new, give it a shot!
3.Stay safe. Regardless of whether you are having a threesome with someone you know, or someone from a dating app, make sure that protection is being used effectively. You may get away without condoms with your partner, but you won’t know for sure when it’s with someone else.
All in all, it’s important to have fun with it. An open mind is important as is keeping everyone involved and making sure nobody is left out, but above all it’s important that you have fun with the threesome. You never know, it might be your only shot at it.